Have you ever stood in your kitchen, your living room, or your car and felt the weight of everything you don’t have pressing down harder than anything you do? The bills that won’t stop. The grief that won’t lift. The future that looks like a locked door. If so, you have more in common with a desperate widow in ancient Israel than you might think. Her story holds a truth that could change everything: empty is often the very place where God begins His best work.
“Now the wife of one of the sons of the prophets cried to Elisha, ‘Your servant my husband is dead, and you know that your servant feared the Lord, but the creditor has come to take my two children to be his slaves.’ And Elisha said to her, ‘What shall I do for you? Tell me; what have you in the house?’ And she said, ‘Your servant has nothing in the house except a jar of oil.’ Then he said, ‘Go outside, borrow vessels from all your neighbors, empty vessels and not too few. Then go in and shut the door behind yourself and your sons and pour into all these vessels. And when one is full, set it aside.’ So she went from him and shut the door behind herself and her sons. And as she poured they brought the vessels to her. When the vessels were full, she said to her son, ‘Bring me another vessel.’ And he said to her, ‘There is not another.’ Then the oil stopped flowing. She came and told the man of God, and he said, ‘Go, sell the oil and pay your debts, and you and your sons can live on the rest.'”
— 2 Kings 4:1–7 (ESV)
#1. When You Don’t Know What to Do, Bring What You Have
Look at the widow’s situation for just a moment. Her husband, a man who feared the Lord, is dead. The creditors aren’t sending polite reminders; they’re coming for her children. She is out of money, out of options, and out of time. So, she does the only thing she can think of: she cries out to the prophet Elisha.
What does Elisha ask her? Not, “How much do you owe?” Not, “What did you lose?” He asks, “What have you in the house?”
That question is everything. Because emptiness has a way of distorting our vision. When you’re standing in the middle of lack, everything you’ve lost looks enormous, and everything you still have looks invisible. The widow nearly missed it herself. She said, “Your servant has nothing in the house except a jar of oil.”
Did you catch that? She said “nothing” and then immediately named something. She had oil. It wasn’t much. It wasn’t impressive. But it was something. God never starts with what you lost. He starts with what you have.
Maybe today you feel like all you have is a jar of oil, a small skill, a thin paycheck, a fragile faith. You look at it and think, “What good is this?” But God is not asking you to have enough. He’s asking you to bring what you have. A shepherd’s rod became the staff that parted the Red Sea. A boy’s lunch fed five thousand. God has always been in the business of making much out of little. Your job is not to evaluate the size of your offering; your job is to put it in His hands.
#2. Obedience Opens the Door to Overflow
Here is where the story gets interesting, and honestly, a little strange. Elisha doesn’t pray over her oil. He doesn’t perform a dramatic miracle on the spot. Instead, he gives her a set of instructions: “Go outside, borrow vessels from all your neighbors, empty vessels and not too few. Then go in and shut the door behind yourself and your sons and pour into all these vessels.”
Think about what he’s asking her to do. Go knock on doors. Ask your neighbors for their empty jars. Carry them home. Shut the door. And then start pouring your tiny jar of oil into them — as if that makes any sense at all. If she had stopped to reason it out, she might never have moved. Oil doesn’t multiply on its own. One jar doesn’t fill twenty. But obedience doesn’t always wait for understanding. Sometimes it just moves.
She obeyed. The text says, “So she went from him and shut the door behind herself and her sons.” No argument. No negotiation. No second opinion. She simply did what the man of God said.
There’s a quiet lesson here that we easily overlook: God fills the space we make available. She didn’t just obey one step; she obeyed every step. She borrowed the vessels. She shut the door. She started pouring. Each act of obedience was another step deeper into the miracle. And isn’t that how it works in our lives, too? We want the overflow before we’ve done the obeying. We want the outcome before we’ve walked the process. But God often ties His provision to our willingness to move even when the instruction doesn’t make complete sense. Obedience is not the reward; it’s the door. On the other side of that door is more than we imagined.
#3. God Fills What You Are Willing to Surrender
Now the oil is flowing. Jar after jar after jar is being filled. Her sons are bringing vessels, and she’s pouring, and the oil just keeps coming. Can you picture the wonder in that room? Can you imagine the moment she realized this wasn’t going to stop?
But then it did stop. The reason it stopped is one of the most piercing details in the entire passage. She said to her son, “Bring me another vessel.” He said to her, “There is not another.” Only then did the oil stop flowing.
Read that again carefully. The oil did not run out. The vessels did. The miracle didn’t reach its limit; her capacity did. God was willing to keep pouring. She simply had no more room to receive.
That should stop us in our tracks. How many times has God been ready to do more in our lives, but we’ve run out of room? Not because He’s run out of supply, but because we’ve run out of surrender. We give Him one area but hold back three others. We open one jar but keep the rest on the shelf. We say, “God, fill this part of my life” — but we’ve already decided He’s not welcome in the rest.
The oil flows to the measure of our openness. Every empty vessel she borrowed was an act of faith, an admission that she expected God to fill it. What if she had only borrowed two or three jars, thinking, “I don’t want to be greedy”? The miracle would have stopped sooner. Not because God was limited, but because she was. The beautiful, challenging truth is this: God will fill what you’re willing to surrender. The question isn’t whether He has enough. The question is whether you’ll bring Him enough empty jars.
#4. God Turns “Not Enough” Into More Than Enough
When the pouring was done and the last vessel was full, the widow went back to Elisha. And his response is stunning in its simplicity: “Go, sell the oil and pay your debts, and you and your sons can live on the rest.”
Let that sink in. She didn’t just get enough oil to scrape by. She didn’t just barely cover the debt. There was enough to pay every creditor, keep her children free, and still have oil left over for her family to live on. God didn’t just meet her need; He exceeded it. He took a woman who started the day with “not enough” and ended her day with “more than enough.”
This is the nature of our God. He is not a God of bare minimums. He is a God of overflow. He is the God who doesn’t just forgive sin but removes it as far as the east is from the west. He is the God who doesn’t just promise life but promises it abundantly. He is the God who is able to do, as Paul writes, “far more abundantly than all that we ask or think” (Ephesians 3:20, ESV).
The widow walked into Elisha’s presence with a death sentence hanging over her family. She walked out with a future. Debt; paid. Children; free. Provision; overflowing. And it all started with one small jar of oil and a willingness to obey.
From Empty to Enough
So, here’s the truth I want to leave with you today, friend. If you feel empty, if the cupboard is bare, the account is low, the hope is thin, you may be standing in exactly the place where God does His best work. He’s not intimidated by your emptiness. He’s not surprised by your lack. He’s asking you the same question He asked that widow through Elisha: “What have you in the house?”
Bring it to Him. Whatever it is, however small, however insufficient it looks, bring it. Then obey the next step, even if it doesn’t make sense. Open up the areas of your life you’ve been holding back. Borrow the empty jars. Shut the door. Start pouring. And watch what God does with a heart that is surrendered and hands that are willing.
Because empty is not the end of your story. It’s the beginning. And the God who turned one jar of oil into an overflowing river of provision is the same God who is looking at your “not enough” right now and planning to make it more than enough.
The story of Jesus’ birth is one of the most familiar in Scripture, yet it remains one of the most overlooked. Not because people haven’t heard it, but because they often miss the meaning behind it. Matthew opens his Gospel with a truth so profound that it reshapes the entire biblical story: “They shall call His name Immanuel,” which means “God with us.” (Matthew 1:22–23). Those three words—God with us—carry the weight of God’s promise, God’s heart, and God’s desire for His people from the very beginning.
Immanuel is not simply a name; it is a declaration. Jesus is God’s promise to be present with His people. For generations, Israel had waited for God to act, to speak, to restore. And in the birth of Jesus, God did more than send a message—He came Himself. Matthew 1–2 shows us that the arrival of Jesus was not random or accidental. It was the fulfillment of Isaiah 7:14, where God promised a sign: a virgin would conceive and bear a Son, and His name would be Immanuel. God was not content to remain distant. He stepped into the world He created.
But the miracle of Immanuel is not only that God came near—it is how He came near. Jesus lived as one of us. Philippians 2:6–8 reminds us that He took on human form, embracing humility and obedience. He faced temptation and trials (Hebrews 4:15), not from a distance but from within the human experience. He taught the heart of God and the values of the kingdom in Matthew 5–7, revealing what life with God truly looks like. He showed compassion, tenderness, and humanity in Matthew 8–9 as He healed, touched, restored, and noticed those the world ignored.
Jesus didn’t just preach God’s presence—He embodied it.\
He restored what was broken. In Matthew 9:12–13, He declared that He came for the sick, not the healthy. In Matthew 11:28–30, He invited the weary and burdened to find rest in Him. Jesus was not a distant Savior; He was the restorer, the healer, the One who brought God’s mercy into everyday life.
And from the beginning to the end of Matthew’s Gospel, one message remains unchanged: God is with you. The Gospel opens with the promise of Immanuel (Matthew 1:23) and closes with Jesus’ final words: “I am with you always, to the end of the age.” (Matthew 28:20). The presence of God is not seasonal. It is not limited to a manger scene or a moment in history. It is the ongoing reality for every believer.
Where many miss Jesus is not in the story of His birth, but in the significance of His presence. God has always wanted relationship, faithful love, and a people who walk with Him. Jesus is the fulfillment of that desire.
Immanuel means you are not alone. God has come near. God is present. God is with us—still.
From time to time, I will share a variety of topics related to personal growth and development. These thoughts are part of what we do at the Preacher’s Pen, but also related to our efforts at 4031 Coaching.
Today, we will mention a few tips and strategies on “Embracing Change.” Change affects every aspect of our lives from family, work, church, etc. We are all impacted by change and how it gives us opportunity.
Here are a few thoughts to share.
Embracing Change
Change is an inevitable part of life, and it can be challenging to navigate. However, with the right mindset and tools, you can learn to embrace change and use it as an opportunity for personal growth and development.
Here are some tips and strategies to help you deal with change in a positive and productive way.
#1 – Acceptance
The first step in dealing with change is acceptance. As the saying goes, “The only constant in life is change.” Life is always changing, and the sooner you can accept this fact, the easier it will be to adapt to new situations. Remember, acceptance doesn’t mean giving up or being passive; it means acknowledging the reality of the situation and choosing to move forward.
Sometimes, change is an opportunity to get out of our comfort zone and move forward. Remember, Abram and God asking him to pack up everything and move. That is one change in his life that brought great opportunity.
“Change is the law of life. And those who look only to the past or present are certain to miss the future.” – John F. Kennedy
Remember, “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” – Romans 8.28
#2 – Don’t Get Too Comfortable
It’s easy to become comfortable in our routines and resist change. However, change often happens when we least expect it, and it’s important to be prepared for anything that comes our way. By staying open to new experiences and being willing to step outside of our comfort zones, we can build resilience and learn to adapt to change more easily.
Our comfort can give way to apathy. An individual may become so comfortable, they find themselves complacent and apathetic toward moving forward.
“The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance.” – Alan Watts
Remember, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” – Romans 12.2
#3 – Talk About Your Feelings Towards Change
Change can bring up a range of emotions, and it’s important to acknowledge and express these feelings. Talk to someone you trust about how you’re feeling, whether it’s a friend, family member, or therapist. Sharing your thoughts and feelings with others can help you feel supported and understood, and it can also provide new perspectives and insights.
As Christians, we can talk to our spiritual family. Most importantly, we should be taking to God. (Philippians 4.6) Throughout change, our communication with God should be a priority.
“The only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it.” – Steve Jobs
Remember, “Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.” – 1 Peter 5.7
#4 – Try to Turn the Change in Your Favor
Change can be challenging, but it can also present new opportunities. Try to look for the silver lining in the situation and see if there are any ways you can turn the change to your advantage. Remember, every challenge is an opportunity for growth and development. The change we are experiencing may work out to be a great opportunity that we can imagine.
“When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.” – Viktor Frankl
Remember, “I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength.” – Philippians 4.13
#5 – Keep Changes You Can Control to a Minimum
Change can be overwhelming, especially when it happens all at once. If you have control over the changes in your life, try to introduce them gradually to give yourself time to adjust. Remember, slow and steady wins the race.
There are times in our life where changes bring worry. Those times of worry are moments we probably want to avoid. As Christians, if we believe God is in control of our lives, then our worries should be made known to Him. Consider the words of Christ in Matthew 6.19-34)
“The secret of change is to focus all of your energy, not on fighting the old, but on building the new.” – Socrates
Remember, “For God is not a God of confusion but of peace.” – 1 Corinthians 14.33
#6 – Join Support Groups
Sometimes, change can be so significant that we need the support of others who are going through similar experiences. Consider joining a support group to connect with others who understand what you’re going through. Sharing your experiences and learning from others can be incredibly helpful and healing.
The biggest support group Christians have is their brothers and sisters in Christ. As we pray for one another, support one another, and look out for one another, we should know we are loved. The experience of like-minded brothers and sisters will help us gain much throughout life. They will be a support network we can count on.
“Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much.” – Helen Keller
Remember, “And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another.” – Hebrews 10.24-25
#7 – Trust Your Instincts
When faced with change, it’s important to trust your instincts and listen to your inner voice. If something doesn’t feel right, it’s okay to speak up or remove yourself from the situation. Remember, you are the expert on your own life, and you know what’s best for you.
You might trust yourself because of your experience and ability but remember the One who designed you with your strengths and abilities. We have gained much in this life, but never forget the One who gave us those opportunities.
“Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do.” – Benjamin Spock
Remember, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” – Proverbs 3.5-6
#8 – Change Can Lead to Unforeseen Opportunities
Change can be scary, but it can also open up new doors and opportunities. By staying open to new experiences and embracing change, you may discover new passions, meet new people, and find new paths in life. Remember, every ending is a new beginning.
“Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change.” – Wayne Dyer
Remember, “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” – Jeremiah 29:11
Here are a Few Actionable Steps
Practice acceptance by acknowledging the reality of the situation and choosing to move forward.
Step outside of your comfort zone and try something new to build resilience and adaptability.
Talk to someone you trust about how you’re feeling and seek support if needed.
Look for the silver lining in the situation and see if there are any ways you can turn the change to your advantage.
Introduce changes gradually if possible, to give yourself time to adjust.
Join a support group to connect with others who are going through similar experiences.
Trust your instincts and listen to your inner voice.
Stay open to new experiences and opportunities that may arise from change.
Remember, change is a natural part of life, and with the right mindset, tools, and God, you can learn to embrace it and use it as an opportunity for personal growth and development.
Keep moving forward, and trust that everything will work out in the end.
If you are a Christian, your change to live for Christ is powerful. Consider Paul’s words in 2 Corinthians 5.17, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!”
The walls of the pit must have seemed higher than a building as it blocked out the sun while his brothers looked down at him. The only thing he had done was to share the dreams he had over the past few nights. His brother became furious at his interpretation of the dreams. His brothers disliked the more he obeyed his father. Now, he is in a pit… just waiting.
The next step would take him farther from home. His brothers ended up selling him to slave traders. He ended up being sold again to the captain of the military guard in Egypt. Now he was a servant in a foreign land far from home. In a short time, he went from being the most loved son of his father to being a servant in a God-less kingdom.
Even though he was in a foreign land, the Lord watched over him and brought him to a place of prominence in the empire. Long story short, he ended up in prison for doing what was right. His choice of the right thing ended up putting him in the wrong place.
How can a man stay true to who he is called to be when, at every height, there is a rocky bottom?
Whether a pit or a foreign prison, he was at the bottom again?
What do you do when everyone turns their back on you?
Joseph stayed faithful. The Lord blessed Joseph in prison and each blessing brought him success. (Genesis 39.21-23)
Joseph uses his abilities. Not only was Joseph faithful, but he used his gifts to bless those around him. (Genesis 40.1-15)
Joseph remembered God. As God remembered Joseph, Joseph remembered the way God had blessed him and he looked into the future. (Genesis 41.50.52)
When Jesus gathered with His closest friends shortly before His betrayal and arrest, He says, “Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends.” (John 16.13; ESV)
While most know the verse, it is important to realize the background of His words. The background is simple, yet chilling.
Jesus was getting ready to die, and He knew it. As one might say, “His time had come.” He knew that shortly one of his closest followers would betray him for money, that another would deny him three times and still all the others would disappear for a while. He would be left alone. It would be difficult.
Jesus taught many lessons throughout His brief time on Earth, but one of the greatest lessons He taught was service. Even though He knew His friends would leave Him, He still stood firm and served them so their lives could be greater.
Jesus’ interests were clearly in the lives of those around Him. He knew His purpose (Luke 19.10) and His purpose was not of His own, but that of the Father. (John 6.38) Even in His prayer in John 17, one can see the actions of Jesus were to glorify the Father (John 17.1-5). As Jesus prays for Himself, He does not forget His friends (John 17.20-26)
Are you interested in the people?
Jesus found an interest in people because they needed someone to lead them to a better life. Earlier in His ministry, Matthew records that Jesus “…had compassion for them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.” (Matthew 9.35-38)
Are you sharing the story of Jesus’ interest in people?
