It Starts with You

Warning, it’s full of many words.

Typically, I only scroll one thumb swipe up on Facebook. Today, I went through several thumbs scrolls and noticed something tragic. The world will always be the world. There will always be rumors of wars, violence, times of peace, grateful times, hateful times. There will be times of joy and times of sadness, times to eat and times we fast. There will always be unique times.

However, tonight, I feel sorry for people. I have read some of your posts, seen your pictures and read your words. Much of it was discouraging. The fight of an election, riots and which lives matter, really brings us into a divided being. Whether or not you are offended, does not really matter. Some of you put so much drama on Facebook that I can’t imagine you ever being happy. You focus on the past like it was the best. The past is just that, the past. It is time to move forward. What you did in high school might have been fun, but it is what you are doing now that will make you great.

Truthfully, I was a jerk in high school and most of college. I disliked school, ignorant people, and busy work. I hated all of it. I wanted to reach for better things of service, not a textbook of past thoughts. History is important, but making the past your aim is sad. By the way, if I was a jerk to you in school or in college, I apologize.

Tonight, I see people posting things and it concerns me. I might be one of those too, but I hope not. I see people arguing over things that may not matter in 10 years. They will be forgotten, but you will not be.

If you want to make a difference in the world…

If you want to make a difference to future generations…

if you want to make a difference in the lives of your children…

If you really want to create unity…

If you really want to save lives…

If you really want to fight injustice….

If you really want to make the world a better place…

Then it starts with YOU!

It does not start with a protest a presidential candidate, burning a building, a Facebook status or fighting your fellow man…it starts with YOU!

It starts with the fact that you are not perfect. You are not without fault. You are trying, but YOU get in YOUR way. Stop getting in your own way. Get off of Facebook and get to work. Make yourself better first, then worry about what everyone else is doing. You will help no one until you work on YOU!

So, get to work.

Ask for help.

Make a plan.

Get a hobby.

Take a class.

Eat better.

Talk better.

Stop complaining and start working.

Realize that life is not about.

Realize your children need you.

Realize your future great-grandchildren need a better world.

Realize YOU can get in YOUR own way.

So, how can I help?

Just some thoughts,

 

 

Walking the Journey of Faith

The Christian life is a journey that begins with hearing the Word of God. Romans 10:17 teaches that faith comes by hearing. Hearing is where the heart awakens when truth is received. The believer who listens with humility discovers the first step in a life shaped by God’s words. Hearing God’s Word opens the door to every other response in the walk of faith.

The journey continues with belief. John 8:24 shows that belief in Christ is essential for salvation. Belief is more than agreement. It is trust. It is confidence in the promises of God. It is the conviction that Jesus is Lord. Belief involves actions. (James 2.14-26) Belief strengthens the soul for the steps that follow.

The next step is repentance. Acts 2:38 calls every believer to turn from sin. Repentance is not a moment of guilt; it is a change of direction. It is the decision to leave behind the old life so the new life can grow. Repentance clears the path for spiritual progress.

Confession follows repentance. Romans 10:9 teaches that confession is the open declaration that Jesus is Lord. This declaration of Romans 10 is built on the words of Romans 1-9. Confession is the voice of faith. It is the believer’s public commitment to Christ. Confession strengthens courage and deepens identity.

Baptism marks the moment of new life. Romans 6:4 describes baptism as being buried with Christ and raised to walk in newness of life. Galatians 3:27 teaches that baptism clothes the believer with Christ. Baptism is not the end of the journey. It is the beginning of a transformed walk.

The journey of faith continues each day. The believer listens to Scripture, trusts God’s promises, turns from sin, speaks truth, and walks in the new life given by Christ. The journey is not rushed. It is lived step by step. Each step brings the believer closer to the heart of God.

Let this reminder strengthen your walk. The journey of faith is a gift. It is a path shaped by Scripture, guided by Christ, and filled with hope for every believer who chooses to walk with Him.

Just some thoughts,

 

 

 

 

Preacher: A Time Management Challenge

The past few weeks, months, have been a whirlwind of activity. There have been miles driven, including a quick turn around trip to West Virginia. That quick turnaround was 23 hours and 50 minutes from Southside, Alabama, to Nitro, WV, then back you Southside, Alabama. 18 hours of driving time, 2 hours cleaning a house and about 3 hours sleep in a Pilot Truck Stop.

All of this, to bring my biological father home to live with me.

Needless to say, times have been fast and the days ae long, but life is great.

As I look at my calendar this week, I wanted to share a few things with you. Monday has not even started yet, but these things are still on my mind. Across my desk tonight is a laptop, a paper planner, and a few pens. The week will be a great one.

There is what I am thinking.

This week, I am going to war against wasted time.

Here’s the truth nobody wants to say aloud: the ministry didn’t steal your time. The lack of a plan did.

We’ve all been there. Sunday’s coming, the sermon still needs work, the visit list is growing, the phone won’t stop buzzing, and somehow, it’s already Thursday. Again.

Time management isn’t just a productivity hack for CEOs in corner offices. For the preacher, it’s a stewardship issue. God gave you 168 hours this week. The same as everyone else.

The question isn’t whether you’re busy. You know you’re busy; I know you’re busy. The question is whether you’re building or just burning.

Here’s your challenge this week:

  1. Do an audit on your week. Before you plan anything new, look at where last week’s hours went. Not where you think they went, but where they really went. Write it down. Be honest. No one’s grading you.
  2. Block your Big Three. Identify the three tasks this week that will move your ministry forward the most. It might be the sermon prep, that leadership conversation you’ve been avoiding, the follow-up visit. Put them on the calendar first, before anything else fills the space.
  3. Create a “Not Today” list. Some things are good but not urgent. Give yourself permission to say “not today” to the things that can wait so you can say “right now” to the things that can’t.
  4. Protect your prep day. Pick one day this week that is non-negotiable for sermon study and spiritual preparation. Guard it like you’d guard the pulpit on Sunday morning.
  5. Report back Friday. Drop into the community and tell us: What did you protect this week? What tried to steal your time? Did you let it? (The Community is our Preacher Building Community. If you want to know more, just ask.)

The goal isn’t perfection. The goal is intention.

A preacher who manages his time well isn’t just more productive, he’s more present. He is more present for his family, more prepared for his people, and more available to the Lord.

Just some thoughts,

 

 

 

 

When God Moves You From Empty to Enough

Have you ever stood in your kitchen, your living room, or your car and felt the weight of everything you don’t have pressing down harder than anything you do? The bills that won’t stop. The grief that won’t lift. The future that looks like a locked door. If so, you have more in common with a desperate widow in ancient Israel than you might think. Her story holds a truth that could change everything: empty is often the very place where God begins His best work.


“Now the wife of one of the sons of the prophets cried to Elisha, ‘Your servant my husband is dead, and you know that your servant feared the Lord, but the creditor has come to take my two children to be his slaves.’ And Elisha said to her, ‘What shall I do for you? Tell me; what have you in the house?’ And she said, ‘Your servant has nothing in the house except a jar of oil.’ Then he said, ‘Go outside, borrow vessels from all your neighbors, empty vessels and not too few. Then go in and shut the door behind yourself and your sons and pour into all these vessels. And when one is full, set it aside.’ So she went from him and shut the door behind herself and her sons. And as she poured they brought the vessels to her. When the vessels were full, she said to her son, ‘Bring me another vessel.’ And he said to her, ‘There is not another.’ Then the oil stopped flowing. She came and told the man of God, and he said, ‘Go, sell the oil and pay your debts, and you and your sons can live on the rest.'”

— 2 Kings 4:1–7 (ESV)


#1. When You Don’t Know What to Do, Bring What You Have

Look at the widow’s situation for just a moment. Her husband, a man who feared the Lord, is dead. The creditors aren’t sending polite reminders; they’re coming for her children. She is out of money, out of options, and out of time. So, she does the only thing she can think of: she cries out to the prophet Elisha.

What does Elisha ask her? Not, “How much do you owe?” Not, “What did you lose?” He asks, “What have you in the house?”

That question is everything. Because emptiness has a way of distorting our vision. When you’re standing in the middle of lack, everything you’ve lost looks enormous, and everything you still have looks invisible. The widow nearly missed it herself. She said, “Your servant has nothing in the house except a jar of oil.”

Did you catch that? She said “nothing” and then immediately named something. She had oil. It wasn’t much. It wasn’t impressive. But it was something. God never starts with what you lost. He starts with what you have.

Maybe today you feel like all you have is a jar of oil, a small skill, a thin paycheck, a fragile faith. You look at it and think, “What good is this?” But God is not asking you to have enough. He’s asking you to bring what you have. A shepherd’s rod became the staff that parted the Red Sea. A boy’s lunch fed five thousand. God has always been in the business of making much out of little. Your job is not to evaluate the size of your offering; your job is to put it in His hands.

#2. Obedience Opens the Door to Overflow

Here is where the story gets interesting, and honestly, a little strange. Elisha doesn’t pray over her oil. He doesn’t perform a dramatic miracle on the spot. Instead, he gives her a set of instructions: “Go outside, borrow vessels from all your neighbors, empty vessels and not too few. Then go in and shut the door behind yourself and your sons and pour into all these vessels.”

Think about what he’s asking her to do. Go knock on doors. Ask your neighbors for their empty jars. Carry them home. Shut the door. And then start pouring your tiny jar of oil into them — as if that makes any sense at all. If she had stopped to reason it out, she might never have moved. Oil doesn’t multiply on its own. One jar doesn’t fill twenty. But obedience doesn’t always wait for understanding. Sometimes it just moves.

She obeyed. The text says, “So she went from him and shut the door behind herself and her sons.” No argument. No negotiation. No second opinion. She simply did what the man of God said.

There’s a quiet lesson here that we easily overlook: God fills the space we make available. She didn’t just obey one step; she obeyed every step. She borrowed the vessels. She shut the door. She started pouring. Each act of obedience was another step deeper into the miracle. And isn’t that how it works in our lives, too? We want the overflow before we’ve done the obeying. We want the outcome before we’ve walked the process. But God often ties His provision to our willingness to move even when the instruction doesn’t make complete sense. Obedience is not the reward; it’s the door. On the other side of that door is more than we imagined.

#3. God Fills What You Are Willing to Surrender

Now the oil is flowing. Jar after jar after jar is being filled. Her sons are bringing vessels, and she’s pouring, and the oil just keeps coming. Can you picture the wonder in that room? Can you imagine the moment she realized this wasn’t going to stop?

But then it did stop. The reason it stopped is one of the most piercing details in the entire passage. She said to her son, “Bring me another vessel.” He said to her, “There is not another.” Only then did the oil stop flowing.

Read that again carefully. The oil did not run out. The vessels did. The miracle didn’t reach its limit; her capacity did. God was willing to keep pouring. She simply had no more room to receive.

That should stop us in our tracks. How many times has God been ready to do more in our lives, but we’ve run out of room? Not because He’s run out of supply, but because we’ve run out of surrender. We give Him one area but hold back three others. We open one jar but keep the rest on the shelf. We say, “God, fill this part of my life” — but we’ve already decided He’s not welcome in the rest.

The oil flows to the measure of our openness. Every empty vessel she borrowed was an act of faith, an admission that she expected God to fill it. What if she had only borrowed two or three jars, thinking, “I don’t want to be greedy”? The miracle would have stopped sooner. Not because God was limited, but because she was. The beautiful, challenging truth is this: God will fill what you’re willing to surrender. The question isn’t whether He has enough. The question is whether you’ll bring Him enough empty jars.

#4. God Turns “Not Enough” Into More Than Enough

When the pouring was done and the last vessel was full, the widow went back to Elisha. And his response is stunning in its simplicity: “Go, sell the oil and pay your debts, and you and your sons can live on the rest.”

Let that sink in. She didn’t just get enough oil to scrape by. She didn’t just barely cover the debt. There was enough to pay every creditor, keep her children free, and still have oil left over for her family to live on. God didn’t just meet her need; He exceeded it. He took a woman who started the day with “not enough” and ended her day with “more than enough.”

This is the nature of our God. He is not a God of bare minimums. He is a God of overflow. He is the God who doesn’t just forgive sin but removes it as far as the east is from the west. He is the God who doesn’t just promise life but promises it abundantly. He is the God who is able to do, as Paul writes, “far more abundantly than all that we ask or think” (Ephesians 3:20, ESV).

The widow walked into Elisha’s presence with a death sentence hanging over her family. She walked out with a future. Debt; paid. Children; free. Provision; overflowing. And it all started with one small jar of oil and a willingness to obey.

From Empty to Enough

So, here’s the truth I want to leave with you today, friend. If you feel empty, if the cupboard is bare, the account is low, the hope is thin, you may be standing in exactly the place where God does His best work. He’s not intimidated by your emptiness. He’s not surprised by your lack. He’s asking you the same question He asked that widow through Elisha: “What have you in the house?”

Bring it to Him. Whatever it is, however small, however insufficient it looks, bring it. Then obey the next step, even if it doesn’t make sense. Open up the areas of your life you’ve been holding back. Borrow the empty jars. Shut the door. Start pouring. And watch what God does with a heart that is surrendered and hands that are willing.

Because empty is not the end of your story. It’s the beginning. And the God who turned one jar of oil into an overflowing river of provision is the same God who is looking at your “not enough” right now and planning to make it more than enough.

Just some thoughts,

You Are a New Creation: How to Stop Living Under Old Labels

You Are a New Creation: How to Stop Living Under Old Labels

Have you ever introduced yourself and felt like the words coming out of your mouth didn’t match the person you actually are? Maybe you described yourself by a job title that doesn’t light you up, or you caught yourself replaying an old narrative — “I’m the one who always messes up,” “I’m not the smart one in the family,” “I’m just not leadership material.”

We all carry labels. Some were given to us by other people. Some we created ourselves. And some were formed in seasons of failure, pain, or rejection that we never fully processed. The problem isn’t that labels exist, it’s that we keep wearing ones that expired the moment we came to Christ.

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” (2 Corinthians 5:17)

Why Old Labels Stick

Old labels are persistent because they’re rooted in emotion, not logic. When someone told you that you weren’t good enough — a parent, a teacher, a boss, an ex — your brain didn’t just hear it. It absorbed it. It became part of the operating system you use to make decisions, assess risk, and define your potential.

That’s why you can read 2 Corinthians 5:17, agree with it theologically, and still live under the weight of an old identity. The information changed, but the formation didn’t. This is exactly where coaching and intentional spiritual practice come in.

What “New Creation” Actually Means

Being a new creation in Christ isn’t a metaphor for self-improvement. It’s a declaration of total identity replacement. The Greek word Paul uses for “new” here is kainos — meaning something entirely new in quality, not just new in time. You’re not a renovated version of your old self. You are a completely different entity in the eyes of God.

This means every label that was attached to the old you has no legal claim on the new you. “Failure” doesn’t stick to a new creation. “Not enough” doesn’t stick to a new creation. “Damaged goods” doesn’t stick to a new creation. Those labels belong to a person who no longer exists.

Practical Steps to Shed Old Labels

  1. Identify the label. You can’t remove what you won’t name. Ask yourself honestly: what label am I still wearing that doesn’t align with who God says I am? Write it down. Seeing it on paper takes away some of its power.
  2. Trace the source. Where did this label come from? A specific person? A specific event? Understanding the origin helps you see that it was never God’s voice speaking it over you in the first place.
  3. Replace it with Scripture. For every old label, find a Scripture that declares the opposite. “Not enough” becomes “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” (Philippians 4:13). “Rejected” becomes “I am chosen and dearly loved” (Colossians 3:12). Write the replacement next to the label.
  4. Speak the new identity daily. Confession isn’t just for sin — it’s for identity. Speak who you are in Christ out loud every morning. Repetition rewires belief. Faith comes by hearing, and sometimes the most important voice you need to hear is your own declaring God’s truth.

Moving Forward as the New You

Shedding old labels isn’t a one-time event. It’s a daily practice of choosing God’s voice over the noise. Some days it’ll feel effortless; other days you’ll have to fight for it. That’s okay. The fight itself is evidence of growth — you wouldn’t fight for a truth you hadn’t already started to believe.

You are a new creation. Not tomorrow. Not when you get your life together. Right now. The old is gone. The new is here. Start living like it.

Just some thoughts,