In this journey called life, we often encounter people from all walks of life—some striving towards their goals, others grappling with the desire to change but seemingly unable to make that leap. For those of us who are deeply invested in the well-being of others, it can be incredibly disheartening to watch someone express a yearning to improve yet remain tethered to the same habits and patterns that hold them back.
The Desire to See Others Thrive
The desire to help others stems from a place of deep love and compassion. We see the potential in those around us—friends, family, colleagues—and we earnestly wish for them to experience the growth and happiness they deserve. Our hearts ache when we see them struggle, and we become invested in their journey, often more than they are themselves.
The Frustration of Inaction
One of the most challenging aspects of this experience is the frustration that arises when someone tells you they want to get better, but their actions speak otherwise. They may verbalize their goals, dreams, and aspirations, yet they continue to engage in behaviors that contradict their intentions. This dissonance can be perplexing and discouraging for those of us who are eager to offer support and guidance.
“Change is hard at first, messy in the middle, and gorgeous at the end.” — Robin Sharma
We must remember that change is a deep personal process. The road to improvement is often fraught with obstacles, fears, and uncertainties. It is essential to approach this journey with empathy and patience, recognizing that everyone moves at their own pace.
The Process of Getting Better
Getting better is not a destination but a continuous process. It requires dedication, effort, and a willingness to step out of one’s comfort zone. As much as we wish we could, we cannot make these choices for others. They must take the steps themselves, and it is their responsibility to commit to the journey of self-improvement.
“The only limit to our realization of tomorrow will be our doubts of today.” — Franklin D. Roosevelt
We can offer encouragement, resources, and a listening ear, but ultimately, the power to change lies within the individual. It is crucial to communicate this lovingly and supportively, emphasizing that while we believe in their potential, they must take the reins and steer their own ship.
Navigating the Emotional Terrain
Our desire to see others improve can sometimes lead to emotional exhaustion. We invest our time and energy into helping them, and when progress seems stagnant, we may feel disheartened. It is essential to practice self-care and set healthy boundaries to ensure that our well-being is not compromised in the process.
“You can’t pour from an empty cup. Take care of yourself first.”
Remember, it is not a reflection of our efforts if someone chooses not to take the necessary steps towards improvement. Each person’s journey is unique, and their readiness for change may not align with our timeline.
A Message of Hope and Encouragement
As we continue to support those around us, let us do so with a heart full of hope and encouragement. Change is possible, and while it may take time, each small step forward is a victory worth celebrating.
“The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step.” — Lao Tzu
We must remain steadfast in our belief that people can get better, and we should continue to offer our unwavering support. At the same time, we must acknowledge that the choice to change lies within the individual. By empowering them to take ownership of their journey, we can foster a sense of agency and motivation that will propel them towards a brighter future.
Keep pressing forward.
Just some thoughts,

Update on February 3rd, 2025
Good Monday morning from the Preacher’s Pen!
Over the past few days, we’ve faced a challenge on how to communicate the message of the Preacher’s Pen amidst the new changes coming our way. Our goal is to encourage individuals by helping them create better days today for a better life tomorrow, all based on the teachings of Jesus Christ.
For years, the Preacher’s Pen has been your one-stop shop for:
- Articles
- Blog posts
- Sermon outlines
- PowerPoint presentations
- Various resources
The Preacher’s Pen website started back in 2006 when my family and I moved to start a church in South Carolina. It became a way for people to stay connected with us as we aimed to inspire and be a beacon of light, spreading messages of hope and encouragement. We wanted to show that while this world is decent, it’s not our true home. Our aim was always to help people make their days better today, leading to a better life tomorrow.
All our messages have revolved around Jesus and the profound teachings He left us with. Over the years, the website has evolved, but last year, we decided to pivot back to our original mission:
- Returning to our roots by focusing on daily motivation rather than being a comprehensive resource center.
- Offering daily encouragement to help you move forward in your faith.
Today, we’re doubling down on that focus. The world is changing fast, but the need for motivation, hope, and challenging the status quo remains. As Christians, we’re called to live the best life possible because we believe in the best future possible, thanks to Jesus, God’s own Son.
So, today, we’re shifting our focus:
- We’re returning to our roots with daily motivational content.
- We’ll also provide weekly information to challenge you to grow and better yourself every day, knowing that our faith in Jesus propels us into a hopeful future that transcends imagination — a future with God in heaven.
You’ll notice some changes on our site soon. I encourage you to sign up for our newsletter. Not only that, but as a Christian seeking God’s presence daily, I urge you to:
- Remain faithful.
- Be a beacon of light in your community.
Remember, God is with us, cares for us, and loves us. As Christians, we have one of the greatest gifts in life: hope.
Be blessed today, and I look forward to talking with you soon.
Just some thoughts,

Going Back to the Beginning Again
In the next few weeks, the Preacher’s Pen website will undergo significant changes. Instead of the comprehensive resource it has become, it will return to its roots as a journal.
In 2005, my family moved to South Carolina to work with a church plant. During this transition period, people wanted to know what was happening, leading to the creation of the Preacher’s Pen website.
Over the years, the site has featured podcasts, sermon outlines, eBooks, coloring books, text message lists, online video series, Bible studies, articles, magazines, workshops, blog posts, random thoughts, and more. It grew significantly from its simple beginnings as a ministry journal.
In 2025, we will return to our roots. Instead of being a resource site, we will go back to the simpler days of an online journal to help others create a better day today for a better life tomorrow, based on the teachings of Jesus Christ.
Stay tuned for more updates.
Thank you for being a part of the past 18 years. We look forward to many more years to come, Lord willing.