Before You Post: The Power of Pause in a Loud World

Let’s be real for a moment. Social media is a powerful tool. It can connect us, inform us, and even inspire us. But it can just as quickly become a platform for mockery, foolishness, and even cruelty; especially when tragedy strikes or when emotions run high.

Sometimes, the best thing we can do is pause, reflect, and honestly ask ourselves: “Is what I’m about to post bringing hope and light into the world, or am I adding to the noise and negativity?”

#1 – Not Every Thought Needs a Platform

We’ve all seen it: posts that make light of tragedy, comments that turn heartbreak into a punchline, or rants that lack any real thought or compassion. It’s easy to get caught up in the moment and hit “post” before thinking about the impact of our words. Just because you can say something, doesn’t mean you should.

There’s real wisdom in holding back. Sometimes, the most mature thing you can do is delete that draft or, better yet, never write it at all. The world doesn’t need more mockery or foolish statements; it needs hope, encouragement, and truth. It needs Jesus.

#2 – Don’t Make a Mockery Out of Tragedy

When tragedy strikes, people are hurting. They don’t need sarcasm, insensitive jokes, or hot takes. They need comfort. They need reminders that there’s still good in the world.

Making a mockery out of a travesty or tragedy only adds to the pain and confusion. As followers of Christ, we’re called to be different. We’re called to be a light in the darkness, not another source of darkness.

#3 – Let’s Bring Hope and Light

Imagine the impact if, instead of foolish statements, our feeds were filled with encouragement, hope, and reminders that God is still in control. We have an incredible opportunity to point people to Jesus, to offer peace in chaos, and to show compassion when it’s needed most.

#4 – Wisdom from Proverbs

The book of Proverbs is packed with wisdom about how we use our words for dealing with foolishness:

“Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest you be like him yourself.” (Proverbs 26:4, ESV)
“Even a fool who keeps silent is considered wise; when he closes his lips, he is deemed intelligent.” (Proverbs 17:28, ESV)

“Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits.” (Proverbs 18:21, ESV)

“A fool takes no pleasure in understanding, but only in expressing his opinion.” (Proverbs 18:2, ESV)

These verses aren’t just ancient wisdom, they’re a blueprint for how we can use our social platforms today. Let’s choose to be wise.

Let’s choose to be different.

#5 – A Call to Pause, Reflect, and Shine

So, before you post, pause. Ask yourself if your words will bring hope, light, and encouragement. If not, maybe it’s time to hit delete or, open your Bible, pray, and ask Jesus to guide your words and actions.

Let’s be people who lift others up, who speak truth with love, and who bring light into even the darkest spaces online.

The world is watching. Let’s show them Jesus.

Just a thought,

 

 

 

 

The Next Step: Why Spiritual Growth Takes Daily Choices

Coming up out of the waters of baptism marks an unforgettable moment. You are raised to walk in newness of life, cleansed and forgiven. It is easy to wonder: what comes next? This is where your journey begins, not where it ends.

God has already provided everything you need for life and godliness. He supplies the power, the grace, and the foundation. In 2 Peter 1.5, Scripture gives us a clear call: “make every effort.” Growth never happens by accident. It requires intentional focus, daily discipline, and real spiritual grit.

Think of Peter’s words as a blueprint for building upon your faith. We are called to add virtue, knowledge, self-control, perseverance, godliness, brotherly kindness, and love. (2 Peter 1.5-8) Each layer builds upon the one before it, shaping our character to look more like Christ.

Some days will feel challenging, but that is where real progress happens. Like the apostle Paul wrote, we press on toward the goal. (Philippians 3.12-14) We choose to pick up our cross daily, keeping our eyes focused squarely on Jesus. (Luke 9.23)

Spiritual effort is never wasted energy. The promise of Scripture is that when these qualities belong to you and increase, you will never be ineffective or unproductive. You become a fruitful branch connected directly to the true vine. (John 15.5) You bring genuine light, encouragement, and practical hope to everyone around you.

Never forget who you are or what God rescued you from. You were created for purpose, designed for growth, and equipped to run this race with confidence.

Take a fresh look at your daily walk today. What is one area where you can invest more focus this week? Step out in faith, put in the work, and trust God to bring the increase.

Just some thoughts,

 

 

 

 

It Starts with You

Warning, it’s full of many words.

Typically, I only scroll one thumb swipe up on Facebook. Today, I went through several thumbs scrolls and noticed something tragic. The world will always be the world. There will always be rumors of wars, violence, times of peace, grateful times, hateful times. There will be times of joy and times of sadness, times to eat and times we fast. There will always be unique times.

However, tonight, I feel sorry for people. I have read some of your posts, seen your pictures and read your words. Much of it was discouraging. The fight of an election, riots and which lives matter, really brings us into a divided being. Whether or not you are offended, does not really matter. Some of you put so much drama on Facebook that I can’t imagine you ever being happy. You focus on the past like it was the best. The past is just that, the past. It is time to move forward. What you did in high school might have been fun, but it is what you are doing now that will make you great.

Truthfully, I was a jerk in high school and most of college. I disliked school, ignorant people, and busy work. I hated all of it. I wanted to reach for better things of service, not a textbook of past thoughts. History is important, but making the past your aim is sad. By the way, if I was a jerk to you in school or in college, I apologize.

Tonight, I see people posting things and it concerns me. I might be one of those too, but I hope not. I see people arguing over things that may not matter in 10 years. They will be forgotten, but you will not be.

If you want to make a difference in the world…

If you want to make a difference to future generations…

if you want to make a difference in the lives of your children…

If you really want to create unity…

If you really want to save lives…

If you really want to fight injustice….

If you really want to make the world a better place…

Then it starts with YOU!

It does not start with a protest a presidential candidate, burning a building, a Facebook status or fighting your fellow man…it starts with YOU!

It starts with the fact that you are not perfect. You are not without fault. You are trying, but YOU get in YOUR way. Stop getting in your own way. Get off of Facebook and get to work. Make yourself better first, then worry about what everyone else is doing. You will help no one until you work on YOU!

So, get to work.

Ask for help.

Make a plan.

Get a hobby.

Take a class.

Eat better.

Talk better.

Stop complaining and start working.

Realize that life is not about.

Realize your children need you.

Realize your future great-grandchildren need a better world.

Realize YOU can get in YOUR own way.

So, how can I help?

Just some thoughts,

 

 

Walking the Journey of Faith

The Christian life is a journey that begins with hearing the Word of God. Romans 10:17 teaches that faith comes by hearing. Hearing is where the heart awakens when truth is received. The believer who listens with humility discovers the first step in a life shaped by God’s words. Hearing God’s Word opens the door to every other response in the walk of faith.

The journey continues with belief. John 8:24 shows that belief in Christ is essential for salvation. Belief is more than agreement. It is trust. It is confidence in the promises of God. It is the conviction that Jesus is Lord. Belief involves actions. (James 2.14-26) Belief strengthens the soul for the steps that follow.

The next step is repentance. Acts 2:38 calls every believer to turn from sin. Repentance is not a moment of guilt; it is a change of direction. It is the decision to leave behind the old life so the new life can grow. Repentance clears the path for spiritual progress.

Confession follows repentance. Romans 10:9 teaches that confession is the open declaration that Jesus is Lord. This declaration of Romans 10 is built on the words of Romans 1-9. Confession is the voice of faith. It is the believer’s public commitment to Christ. Confession strengthens courage and deepens identity.

Baptism marks the moment of new life. Romans 6:4 describes baptism as being buried with Christ and raised to walk in newness of life. Galatians 3:27 teaches that baptism clothes the believer with Christ. Baptism is not the end of the journey. It is the beginning of a transformed walk.

The journey of faith continues each day. The believer listens to Scripture, trusts God’s promises, turns from sin, speaks truth, and walks in the new life given by Christ. The journey is not rushed. It is lived step by step. Each step brings the believer closer to the heart of God.

Let this reminder strengthen your walk. The journey of faith is a gift. It is a path shaped by Scripture, guided by Christ, and filled with hope for every believer who chooses to walk with Him.

Just some thoughts,

 

 

 

 

Preacher: A Time Management Challenge

The past few weeks, months, have been a whirlwind of activity. There have been miles driven, including a quick turn around trip to West Virginia. That quick turnaround was 23 hours and 50 minutes from Southside, Alabama, to Nitro, WV, then back you Southside, Alabama. 18 hours of driving time, 2 hours cleaning a house and about 3 hours sleep in a Pilot Truck Stop.

All of this, to bring my biological father home to live with me.

Needless to say, times have been fast and the days ae long, but life is great.

As I look at my calendar this week, I wanted to share a few things with you. Monday has not even started yet, but these things are still on my mind. Across my desk tonight is a laptop, a paper planner, and a few pens. The week will be a great one.

There is what I am thinking.

This week, I am going to war against wasted time.

Here’s the truth nobody wants to say aloud: the ministry didn’t steal your time. The lack of a plan did.

We’ve all been there. Sunday’s coming, the sermon still needs work, the visit list is growing, the phone won’t stop buzzing, and somehow, it’s already Thursday. Again.

Time management isn’t just a productivity hack for CEOs in corner offices. For the preacher, it’s a stewardship issue. God gave you 168 hours this week. The same as everyone else.

The question isn’t whether you’re busy. You know you’re busy; I know you’re busy. The question is whether you’re building or just burning.

Here’s your challenge this week:

  1. Do an audit on your week. Before you plan anything new, look at where last week’s hours went. Not where you think they went, but where they really went. Write it down. Be honest. No one’s grading you.
  2. Block your Big Three. Identify the three tasks this week that will move your ministry forward the most. It might be the sermon prep, that leadership conversation you’ve been avoiding, the follow-up visit. Put them on the calendar first, before anything else fills the space.
  3. Create a “Not Today” list. Some things are good but not urgent. Give yourself permission to say “not today” to the things that can wait so you can say “right now” to the things that can’t.
  4. Protect your prep day. Pick one day this week that is non-negotiable for sermon study and spiritual preparation. Guard it like you’d guard the pulpit on Sunday morning.
  5. Report back Friday. Drop into the community and tell us: What did you protect this week? What tried to steal your time? Did you let it? (The Community is our Preacher Building Community. If you want to know more, just ask.)

The goal isn’t perfection. The goal is intention.

A preacher who manages his time well isn’t just more productive, he’s more present. He is more present for his family, more prepared for his people, and more available to the Lord.

Just some thoughts,