The Short Answer – Yes!
One person can make a world of difference because the power of one is undeniable. When you look at history, you will see a long list of people who made a difference. These people may have launched a movement, challenge people to live better or made a small choice which caused others to do the same.
Today, social media has given everyone the ability to have a platform and reach countless others. It has never been easier for someone to create a platform for their unique voice, to start a movement, and to rally others behind your cause.
Here are some influencers who single-handedly changed their world:
Do you remember Rosa Parks? Rosa Parks took a stand against segregation and made her impact on the civil rights movement when she refused to give up her seat on a Montgomery, Alabama bus.
How about Nelson Mandela? Mr. Mandela was an unforgettable leader in the movement to end Apartheid in South Africa.
What of those individuals that changed your world?
What about that one teacher that took time and made a difference in your life?
How about your parents and grandparents who affected your life?
Maybe it was a friend, a preacher, a Bible class teacher, or a college professor?
I would imagine that you could speak of the difference-makers in your life, you would find that they all had something in common. I believe you would find that none of them thought of themselves as special, unique, or out of the ordinary. They might have been that to you, but when they see themselves, they see a normal person. They may not have intended to make such a difference in the beginning, but they did. They never felt what they did was anything anyone else would not do given the same options. I would imagine they would be humble and passionate about their interest and would share that they wanted to do their part to help.
This is where the actions of a person make a difference. When one person takes a stand and steps out because someone needs to, they do not know whether they will be successful, but they knew someone must do something.
When someone stepped out, it is not about betting on a guarantee. They decided on the action and it seems the path unfolds before them. As the path unfolds, the resources they need, the connections, and the story all come together as they progress forward in actions.
What started with one person’s actions becomes a community or tribe working together for the same cause.
We should never doubt the ability of one person to make a difference.
Everyone might notice the difference you make, or it might seem to go unnoticed. Either way, do not deny yourself the benefit of your impact.
I would encourage you to step out onto the path towards making your impact.
Remember, one person made a difference in your life. You can make a difference in someone else’s life.
To your success,
How many people to you affect a day?
Do you know?
Remember from our previous encouragements that you affect the lives of others each day. It might be a small impact, but it makes a difference.
This morning I stopped by Panera Bread to get a cup of coffee, and when I pulled to the window, the server handed my coffee to me with a smile and said, “Have a blessed day.” The voice tone fit the words, and the smile was genuine; that slight gesture made an impact.
If you do not think that gesture made an impact, remember, you are reading about it. It made an impact.
For most of us, our lives are on autopilot. We may not know the impact we have on others. Regarding the example above, did I remember to say thank you when I went through the drive-through? I did. Each of us must be conscious of the small actions that make a big difference. It seems for some; they are not always conscious of the impression they are making.
Having self-awareness of our actions towards others is an essential step in learning to maximize our impact and to make doing great things possible – no matter somewhere we are.
Allow me to share a few ways you may already make an impression. These might be a few ways you have not considered yet, but they serve as a reminder.
(1) Influencing Others – People observe our behavior and listen to what we say. Through our actions and words, we are affecting those around us in ways we may not have considered. Your encouragement and positive comments can affect the lives of the people around you.
(2) Providing Acts of Service – Doing things for others is part of being a member of a family, a church, a community, or just being a friend. We may not realize how much our acts of service impact others’ lives until we hear about it later or see the results. Helping someone in a time of need or being a dependable person, who others can count on, is not only admirable, but it builds trust and boosts self-esteem for those we serve.
(3) Providing Solutions – People are looking for solutions. Everyone can find a problem, but very few will offer a proper solution. Are you the “Answer Man” in your circle of influence? Do you like solving problems and finding a way through when things seem stuck? As a problem-solver, you can be a great resource to those who feel stuck in a situation. You can offer them a light at the end of the tunnel or just show them the proper way to go. Providing a solution can assist others in becoming successful.
(4) Providing Peace – Are you able to be the calm in the storm? Are you a comforter? Some people can create peace and comfort for others amid life’s storms? Providing peace for people when they are feeling out of sorts is a meaningful way to help others. People like having someone trustworthy to lean on in a time of need. Having a trusted friend in a time of trouble makes an unsurpassed impact on a person’s wellbeing.
These are only a few of the ways to remind you how you can make a positive impact on others. I am sure there are countless other areas you can think of that make an impact.
What other ways can you think of that help to make a positive impact on others? I am sure you are doing some right now and they are not only having an immediate impact, but a lasting impact.
Have you ever looked back and wondered about your impact?
Something to think about and an action to try
One of the best ways to reflect on your influence is through record keeping. I am not saying that you must record every moment, but a reflection upon your activities provides for a lasting look.
A great way to reflect on our influence is through journaling.
Journaling is something many look at in different ways. Some will journal every day and keep more like a diary. Others will use journaling to store ideas and thoughts for later reflection. Either way, trying it may help to keep you encouraged as you reflect upon your influence.
Try this for two weeks – Journal your activities for two weeks and keep track of the ways you are affecting the people in your life. While two weeks may not be a long time, it might open your eyes to the achievements you make each day.
When you reflect upon on your journal, you will notice your habits. So, be sure to watch each habit for the evidence of your daily impact.
Record your events during the day and see what influence you have on others.
Did you notice someone smile back at you today?
Did you encourage someone today?
What activities do you take part in weekly to better yourself and others?
How much does your presence contribute to their success?
Remember, sometimes you may not notice the influence you have because you are so focused on living, but be more conscious of your actions, and you will see a significant impact. I believe it is important to remember that you are making an impact every day. When you remember that and add some deliberate intent, you can realize your impact and learn to recognize its value.
What will you do today? What impact will you make on those around you?
To your success,
Does a smile have the ability to change others?
Can a smile have an impact?
In 1993, the world needed something. It would be 1993 that two men, Jack Canfield and Mark Victor Hansen, released the “Chicken Soup for the Soul.” Chicken Soup for the Soul filled a gap in the world. The world that was hurting and needed to connect with stories that created hope for those who felt hopeless and nurtured people who were feeling lost and abandoned.
Chicken Soup for the Soul was a compilation of true stories and other stories that inspired readers by showing how others made a difference when it mattered most.
One story titled “A Simple Gesture,” penned by John W. Schlatter.
In John Schlatter’s story, he describes Bill and Mark. Bill was a nerdy guy who was bullied. One day Mark encountered Bill when he, Bill, was planning to kill himself. Mark smiled at Bill. It would be that simple gesture that helped Bill feel the compassion and sense of belonging he needed to stop his plan and begin living a positive life.
All because of a simple smile.
When we encounter people for the first time, we do not know what is happening in their lives. The same is true in our lives; they do not know what is going on in ours. One of the most beautiful things we can do, as a first impression, is to smile at them no matter what is going on in ours.
The act of smiling gives out energy which releases endorphins in our body designed to make us feel good. The experience of receiving a smile can change our mood, our perspectives, and our self-image.
What does a simple smile convey?
- It conveys that I see you.
- It conveys you are accepted.
- It conveys I like you.
- It conveys you matter.
Smiling is one of the fundamental and foundational ways we bond as human beings. When our children are babies, we connect with them from the moment they are born. As parents, we wait with anticipation to see that first genuine smile back.
This first smile back was a sign we are affecting our children’s learning. This shows us they know us, they like us and our communication is just beginning.
If you want a challenge, try these next steps, and see if you notice the impact it has on you and those around you.
(1) Choose a day when you are going to be in your community, around town, running errands or crossing paths with other people. Make it a point to look at each person you see in the eye and smile. Don’t worry if they have their head down, just look at them and smile. The chance that they look up and see a smiling face is great.
(2) When you see an employee in a store, smile at them. As you do wait for the smile back and greet them pleasantly. Remember, we do not know what they are going through. Many employees hear complaints all day long and you might be the first smiling face they see.
(3) Have you ever noticed how you feel when someone responds to your smile with one of their own. Notice how it feels when they don’t respond to your smile. When you feel the effects of a simple smile, it can leave a lasting impact, not just on others, but for you as well.
Who knows what a simple smile can do for someone?
It is a simple gesture each of us can do every day.
Will you smile today?
Just some thoughts,
Have you ever thrown a pebble into a pond and watched the ripples?
One small drop in the water’s pristine surface causes waves that get larger and reach farther as they move across the water.
This ripple effect is like your impact.
You may not think you make a difference or affect people, but what you do ripples out from your actions. Your actions will touch the lives of a few people, who have their impact on the lives of others, and the process will continue.
In each area of our lives, we have opportunities to make an impact of others. Our impact will be like those ripples which continue for a long time. Many times, it might be the “little things” that have the biggest ripples effect in the lives of others.
It is important to remember that the ripples can continue beyond our first actions. Each ripple may continue to go on without ever knowing the results of one simple act.
Below are four areas to think about when considering how your impact can create the ripple effect.
Family
What are the ways the ripple effect can influence your family?
How can you create ripples with your family?
Doing small activities with your family members strengthens the bond and creates habits that influence each member of your family. For instance, taking your child on a parent-child date can affect future generations as your child grows. They might pass on that tradition because they found value in building that relationship.
Sometimes it can be as simple as turning off technology and playing a board game. Creating conversation with your family members is more valuable than achieving a high score or a game. Maybe it is as simple as finding a project to work on together. Taking time, whether quality time or quantity time, is a must have in today’s world. Building those family relationships is vital to future generations.
Business
What are the ways you are creating the ripple effect in your business?
Whether you are a small business owner or an employee, there is a ripple effect.
How can you create ripples in your business?
First, you can create opportunities to give compliments to your staff or co-workers. A good rule to remember is to compliment more than you criticize. One simple action you can take today could be to leave anonymous notes on their desk highlighting something positive that you have noticed about their performance.
When you lift someone’s spirits and make them feel valuable, you can affect their attitude at work. This encouragement at work can have the ripple effect on how they feel when they arrive home after a full day.
Community
How is your ripple effect influencing your community?
You may not think about the community aspect of the ripple effect, but it is a valuable influence on the world.
You might be a mentor to someone in your community or in a local school. Being a mentor is a way to cause a ripple effect. Pouring your energy into a child or a young family who could use your guidance can change not only their lives but the lives of their children as well. You can be the reason they find solutions to their puzzles that otherwise would not have happened without your support.
Church
How is the ripple effect you possess working for your church family?
You might not think of the power of a ripple effect in your church family, but it makes a big difference. When you are even attending services, people notice. When your pew is empty, people notice.
Maybe you are a Bible class teacher. If so, the ripple effect is a powerful influence because you are teaching young people who will teach others down the road. Your time with children each week will have an everlasting impact.
While you might read about these four areas of influence, you might feel the world is too big and too broad to make a difference, but that is not the case. Consider this for a moment – just a little invested money grows exponentially with compound interest, your small investment in someone else’s life will yield significant returns.
What small gestures can you make to cause a ripple in the lives of others?
A tip and a note of appreciation for the waiter or waitress at a restaurant?
A note of appreciation to your child’s teacher?
Baked goods for your neighbor?
Do something small and watch the ripples grow wider and wider.
Allow me to offer you 51 ways you can create ripples through simple actions.
- Do it! (Decide to create a ripple and do it. Start today.
- Stop complaining.
- Serve someone less fortunate.
- Collect quotes and use them for motivation.
- Volunteer.
- Mentor a child or a young family.
- Do something without looking for personal glory.
- Turn off the news.
- Get rid of the stuff in your home (6-month
- Make cookies for a neighbor.
- Organize a neighborhood cookout.
- Send one encouraging card a day.
- Write a note and do not sign it.
- Cut a neighbor’s yard.
- Rake someone else’s leaves.
- Offer to babysit for a young couple.
- Stop checking email.
- Attend church services.
- Assist someone by carrying groceries to their car.
- Put the buggy back at a supermarket.
- Buy your wife flowers or your husband a box of chocolate.
- Take your children to breakfast before school.
- Send your parents a thank you note for raising you.
- Buy someone’s dessert in a restaurant.
- Leave a large tip.
- Paint a picture and hang it in the living room.
- Grow a garden and share your vegetables with others.
- Plant flowers.
- Bake a cake with your children and deliver it to the elderly.
- Take a walk and think.
- Let someone in your lane in traffic.
- Turn off the radio while driving and listen to the wind.
- Read a book about something you disagree with.
- Print photos you have taken and make a photo collage.
- Write “your
- Learn a new hobby.
- Fast for a day.
- Clean your closet out and donate your clothes to the homeless.
- Plant a tree.
- Giveaway some extra jewelry you have to a single mother.
- Call your parents and tell them “Thank You.”
- Volunteer to speak at school regarding your profession or hobby.
- Donate your used cell phone to a woman’s shelter or a soldier overseas.
- Pay for a couple to attend a marriage retreat. (Do so anonymously.
- Take off work early and spend time with your family.
- Write a letter to a missionary and tell them you are praying for them.
- Smile.
- Donate school supplies to children in need.
- Send a widow some flowers.
- Read one book a month.
- Begin journaling.
- Turn off your computer for a day and get out of the chair.
Will you start today?
What simple action will begin creating ripples?
To your success,
Change Starts with You
Change is a word that many people fear. However, change is necessary to growth and opportunity.
Beginning to create change and make a difference starts with one person and their behavior… You!
The knowledge that one person’s behavior is able to create change and make a difference in other’s lives may feel both overwhelming and empowering. However, while it might seem overwhelming and empowering, you must remember this is part of the process of growth and opportunity.
On one hand, putting focus on yourself can feel more comfortable than believing the entire world must change for something great to happen. On the other hand, it can feel like an immense mountain to climb all by yourself.
You must remember not to lose heart while doing good.
If you are changing for the better, do not lose heart. It is rewarding to know the best way to create change in others and the world, is by changing yourself first. Creating change in yourself begins with personal responsibility.
Take note that being responsible for your actions is the beginning step on the road to influencing others.
When you change, others see a positive change, and the results that follow, they want to make a positive difference as well.
Here are some words found in the back of No More Mondays by Dan Miller (page 241) (Amazon Link) attributed as found on a tomb dated A.D. 1100 of an Anglican Bishop at Westminster Abbey:
When I was young and free, and my imagination had no limits,
I dreamed of changing the world.
As I grew older and wiser, I discovered the world would not change,
so I shortened my sights somewhat and
decided to change only my country.
But it, too, seemed immovable.
As I grew into my twilight years,
in one last desperate attempt,
I settled for changing only my family,
those closest to me, but alas,
they would have none of it.
And now as I lie on my deathbed, I suddenly realize:
If I had only changed myself first,
Then by example I would have changed my family.
From their inspiration and encouragement,
I would have been able to better my country and,
who knows, I may have changed the world.
People make their most significant impact in areas that mean the most to them. A child who struggled with not having enough food to eat growing up might grow to be an adult who works to end hunger. Someone who didn’t have access to education might spend their time promoting literacy.
Creating personal change makes a difference in life. Each one goes through personal trials, struggles and more. The ability to create change and take place, even in the storms of life. When tragedy strikes, there are usually two reactions people experience: (1) depression, or (2) an urge to make sure it doesn’t happen again.
People are different in the manner they handle situations. Two people can face the same situation and have radically different reactions. One person may fall into deep depression and retreat from life, and the other may use their issue as a starting point for making a difference.
Our desire is to create positive change in our lives so we can assist others in making positive chance in theirs.
There are as many unique ways to make a positive change in other’s lives. You can start to make a positive change by asking yourself a few questions:
- What is something about which you feel strongly?
- In what ways do you naturally give your time and your resources to help others?
- What are you gifting to others?
- In what areas of your character do you receive the most compliments?
- What events have happened in your life to create space for concern and empathy for others?
- What are the things you know how to do that can make life easier for others?
Beginning with these questions will start your thinking about what matters to you. They will help you also answer what personal and unique experiences you have had that can help you make an impact.
You can start with the answers to these questions to realize that you already have the tools to do something, somewhere, that will ripple forth and make a change for the better.
When you realize you have the tools and the experience, you can move forward with confidence that you can make an impact, and that no matter how insignificant you feel in the grand scheme of things, you are vital and very much needed.
So, what are you willing to change, positively to extend your impact to those around you?
Just some thoughts,
Before we begin, remember, “Everyone makes an impact.”
You make an impact. Remember that.
Whether or not you know it, you make an impact. Whether or not you are acting intentionally, you make an impact.
While it may be hard to believe, but you are affecting someone. Your actions, my actions, and the actions of others are influencing the world.
What you do matters in more ways than you may realize, and it matters to more people than you realize. Your efforts may create chaos or lead to grand achievements. What will matter to the results is whether or not you are being intentional with your actions.
Have you ever heard of the Butterfly Effect?
The Butterfly effect states that a small first action can cause a reaction of epic proportions. The example is that the simple movement of a butterfly’s wings over time can cause a wave that results in a hurricane. The Butterfly effect is an illustration of how important even the smallest of actions are in the grand scheme of the world.
As someone who lives every day, it is important for you to remember that you have an effect everywhere you go. You matter. You are important. Have you ever considered this?
Did you know that you have a sphere of influence?
Your sphere of influence is the people and places where you make the most impact. This sphere of influence would include your family, your close friends, your co-workers, your church family and anyone close to you. This sphere of influence is where your presence is felt the most.
With the concept of the Butterfly Effect and your Sphere of Influence, how are you making an impact?
Consider this:
- How you parent your children makes an impact.
- How you manage your marriage makes an impact.
- How you engage as a son, daughter, sister, or brother makes an impact.
- What you contribute to your career makes an impact.
- What you create makes an impact.
- Your wisdom makes an impact.
- How you vote makes an impact.
- How you spend your time and money makes an impact.
- How you pour yourself into others makes an impact.
If we sat down to make a list, would could keep going to hours, but I believe you are seeing the impact you have upon others.
Remember, in all that you do, you matter.
How you do things matters.
These things are tied together. While this might seem like an overwhelming responsibility, it isn’t too big when you break it down into manageable parts, in all the different areas of your life.
The most important thing right now is to realize is that you have influence and impact wherever you go. If you are intentional in your actions, you can leave your mark on this world in a favorable and meaningful way.
So, how are you being intentional today?
Remember, you matter.
Just some thoughts,
